Ladies, you are extremely powerful creatures . . . Here’s why:

Your husband will usually live up to the picture of him that you have painted in the back of your mind. Don’t be fooled by his spirit of independence. Men are highly affected by how women view them! A woman that does not give respect to her husband is not only hurting her husband, but also herself.

Listen to this excerpt out of our book on Anger called “Angry without a Cause” (Click Here to Order). This is taken from chapter 2.

“The woman that ridicules her husband by making sarcastic remarks and subtle inferences to his lack of leadership and abilities is not only hurting her husband, but also herself. She is not only ensuring that he will have a tough time rising above her low view of him, but she will also end up DESPISING HIM FOR NOT BEING HALF THE MAN THAT SHE HAS DISCOURAGED HIM TO BE. Deep within, she will struggle with feelings of contempt, since she longs for a man to look up to, but not a man that will look down on her. The problem is that by displaying her inner frustrations toward him, she has become her own archenemy. With her cross looks and her deep sighs, she helps to dig a pit for him that will eventually cause her to become more and more disgusted at his lack of ability to crawl out of it.”

In the same chapter I also wrote:

“Throughout time, women have been tempted to withhold their love and affection toward their husbands because they fail to measure up to their expectations. A woman that has given in to this temptation must realize that when she holds back from loving her husband because he doesn’t meet her standards, she is simply holding her love as a ransom until he comes up with the appropriate payment. This is actually a form of manipulation. It is not what she signed up for when she said, ‘I do’ “.

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Article written by Christian Marriage Speaker and Coach, Dr. Raymond Force

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