What Men Wish Their Wives Knew About Men
The Following is our Latest Press Release about our Book, Angry Without a Cause (Click Here to Order).
OCALA, Florida, March 10th, 2008 — Public speaker and author, Dr. Raymond Force, believes that wives are sometimes “their own arch-enemies” when it comes to getting what they want out of their husbands.
In his new book, Angry Without a Cause, Dr. Raymond Force writes:
“The woman that ridicules her husband by making sarcastic remarks and subtle inferences to his lack of leadership and abilities is not only hurting her husband, but also herself. She is not only ensuring that he will have a tough time rising above her low view of him, but she will also end up despising him for not being half the man that she has discouraged him to be.”
Dr. Force agrees that men are in need of reform when it comes to marital issues, but he also feels that the real issues that are keeping women from having a positive affect on their husbands are often overlooked.
“Most books that I have read on marriage and relationships portray men as relational clowns,” says Force. “Whereas, women tend to get off ’scot free’. It is true that most husbands need to change their approach to marriage, but many wives are unaware that their frustrated phrases and condescending remarks are pushing their men into an emotional pit.”
When asked if men are emotional creatures, Force says, “Of course. They just don’t typically ‘wear it on their sleeves’ as much. Men are very emotional creatures that yearn for respect. When they don’t feel that from the women in their lives, they tend to retract into their ‘caves’. Sadly to say, many men hang out at the gym or the office because they feel more respected there than in their own homes.”
An excerpt:
“Throughout time, women have been tempted to withhold their love and affection toward their husbands because they fail to measure up to their expectations. A woman that has given in to this temptation must realize that when she holds back from loving her husband because he doesn’t meet her standards, she is simply holding her love as a ransom until he comes up with the appropriate payment. This is actually a form of manipulation.”
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